Is the French lifestyle really so wonderful?
Posted by: MikeP in Uncategorised on
May 12, 2009
There have been many articles in the UK press recently extolling the virtues of the French life style, and presenting the usual statistics about how the French work less hours, but do more work, sleep more, have more fun (there may be a correlation there), eat unhealthy food but don't get fat, and so on. I suppose from the perspective of Gordon Brown's bankrupt (in many senses of the word) Britain, just about anywhere seems better these days, but is the French lifestyle really so wonderful?
This article http://www.telegraph.co.uk/comment/personal-view/5280355/The-French-are-wide-awake-to-the-joys-of-life.html contains numerous of these cliched generalisations about the French. It's well worth reading.
Without wishing to sound too 'anti-French', which I will undoubtedly be accused of for considering the nation less than perfect, I reckon this lady was wearing 'lunettes teintes de couleur rose', if such an expression exists in French. I am therefore inviting some opinions on this matter.
I do of course know some utterly charming, friendly, generous, and trustworthy French people, a lot in fact, and if I make the effort to meet more I know I'll find them. I have almost always found that public officials, approached the right way, will be helpful rather obstructive, and that the French have a wonderfully pragmatic approach to problem solving, something which those who have constant brushes with bureaucracy find hard to believe.
Apparently the French achieve more work in shorter hours than many other nations. I suppose this is about lies, damned lies, and statistics, but where I used to work, the French came in, spent the first half hour walking around shaking hands or snogging each other, another half an hour at the coffee machine or outside littering the ground with cigarette ends, and then once at work, endless hours waffling and pontificating, using 300 words where 30 might have done the job more effectively. They did of course invent the hot air balloon in 1783 and seem to live up to the reputation very well.
Then there's the myth of the beautful slim French women. They certainly exist, and in greater numbers than in, for example, the UK where lumpen, tattooed, metal pierced, shaven-headed lumps of lard roam the streets. They do seem to find it awfully hard to smile though, or maybe it's hard to see the smiles through the clouds of cigarette fumes that seem to halo their heads. Many of them are slim, so slim that they look ill, and they seem to have the pinched personalities to go with the pinched look that they acquire as they age.
Apparently the French have less stress and a very low suicide rate, although road traffic statistics probably need to be considered in the context of the latter. I can understand why the Scandies commit suicide so often, what with 25 hours a day of darkness for most of the 11 month winter, and only 5 minutes of darkness in the short summers. The Danes seem to be the exception, they're a happy lot, but maybe being a bit further south without actually being German is the reason for that.
I'm just curious to know what others think.
written by Whosays? , 01 July 2009
written by MikeP , 02 July 2009
You are making a number of assumptions here, which is not always wise.
We are not all 'here' because we like it, in some cases it's circumstantial, and as we contribute by paying taxes and charges criticism is allowed. Blind and unthinking defence of everything French is often inappropriate. The French are the first to criticise many things about their country and people.
As for my views on women, no I'm not gay, but I think I'd be quite comfortable with it if I were, although probably the ideal is to be bisexual, you double your chances of meeting a partner every time you go out! I don't 'hate all women', I rather like them in fact (I even have one!) I just happen to think that one sees far more attractive and well-groomed women elsewhere than the scrawny sour looking specimens who adorn the streets of France. Try Eastern Europe or Argentina or Lebanon, to name just a few places, for some of the most attractive people on earth of both sexes. At the other end of the scale, go and take a walk around Crawley or Swindon and look at the sad specimens of humanity you find there. We can find the good, the bad, and the ugly anywhere on earth.
I think that if you try to recall the names of 'top models' who've made their names over the last few years, very few were French, but it's not an area in which I have great knowledge or interest.
written by Shortia , 08 July 2009
We had friends invite us over this summer. We have politely declined.
written by PammyK , 08 July 2009
Good for you. I wish you health, prosperity and happiness wherever you may go.
written by alain , 09 July 2009
I also noticed that Mike P often criticize the french...sometimes he is relevant and sometimes he exaggerates...but I respect his opinion...he is certainly someone who has lived in France for a very long time so he ended up taking the first french speciality: to moan..
oh yes!
this proves that he is very intelligent...il est des nôootres, il a bu son verre comme les auuuutres!!!
though, also he has the right to say he doesn't like music festivals...
I personally have nothing against this kind of events ...
my worst memories are the concerts of classical music
where my parents took me...(to show that we are well cultivated, bourgeois and all the tra la la!...)
I only heard people coughing and yawning...omg... it was a real nightmare!!!...
the hell is others?!!...I say that the hell is us...
why do we go into places that are not of our taste?...why?!!
written by Jack Harrison , 21 February 2010
You might not now that some of the most beautiful women in the world are French, why else are all the Mags like Paris Match and Vogue from France? Can you answer that? Who are you to say that they are too slim? Then you say that English women are lumps of lard ect. ect. So what pleases you? Do you hate all women? I mean if you are gay that's cool, you are intitled to it but don't slag off all women.